The Berielle Theory

So one night, a couple of years ago, my friend and I were chatting on messenger. We were bored, stressed with exams and laughing hysterically for no apparent reason... I should add that no amount of alcohol was consumed.

[Before explaining our theory I have to say that we have a very strange kind of humour and most of the time no one knows what the heck we're talking about so I will do my best to explain myself well.]
So my friend is very scientific (I'm NOT) but on a crazy night like this I guess the einstein in me came through! We were talking about how we got to know eachother, how faith brought us together and how sometimes we have those moments when we voice eachother's thoughts.

From this conversation we decided to put it in a more scientific manner so we called it The Berielle Theory. The name of this theory comes from the merging of both our names. So this theory is basically just a scientific law called The Weird Law; that A genuinely weird person attracts another genuinely weird person. This means, as I mentioned before that when a person is really strange, he or she will find a person that will understand them and therefore be equally weird. After that the theory continued to evolve with an extension of this law; The Freaky Vibe, this is something that is only experienced by these two people. This is when one weirdo voices what the other one was thinking.

Interesting right? Now let me explain why this occurs mostly between single women.

Well the Berielle science started out between two twenty something year old gals who where too bored and too stressed with exams to go to sleep. We started talking about how single women should stick together, me and my friend have been through everything together during the last 3years of dry guy spell. We watch the same series, we love the same kind of humor and we talk constantly, so we basically developed the same train of thought. This reminds me of two wonderfully hilarious series Friends and Will and Grace (better known as WAG).

They are the ultimate single gal relief! So in the first one you have six 30 something year old people, who basically just hang out and ... say funny stuff? No there's more to it than just that but it's a great example to the Berielle science, they are people who understand each other and are not perfect people with perfect lives, they are imperfect people with VERY imperfect lives. What's the catch? Well it ends with a happy ending! But this series turns even a death in the family funny, dark right? that's most of the fun! Let's face it, when you're single some people choose to become a cynic, it's normal, and even healthy at times it helps you secure yourself from lovey dovey vomity couples on the street, on the bus, in movie theaters, well.. they're everywhere! Now what can you do instead of whining and give out deadly glares at these couples? Well you can make fun of them or else a less "mean" way to go is..again, watching TV Shows!

You're asking right now, are TV shows the cure to everything? Basically Yes... You have any kind for any mood you are in, there's funny, witty,stupid, dramatic,dark,depressing, well you name it and you can find it! Living vicariously through TV shows is a way of relief and safety, it's the road to a rather sane life .. (I said rather!).

Okay ... jokes aside, a TV series show people going through the things that go through everyone's mind! In a TV show you find all kinds of characters, you'll always find someone to associate with, and that will help you through the day. There are many TV shows that can help you through your single life, especially if you're during a dry spell, but what will add up to the help if you have a friend that will share those bad days with a lack of social life. The beauty of a TV show like Friends is not only the show itself and its humor, but its theme song:

So no one told you life was gonna be this way..
Your job's a joke, you're broke, your love life's DOA (Dead Or Alive)
It's like you're always stuck in 2nd gear, when it hasn't been your
Day, Night .. or even your Year!
I'll be there for you, when the rain starts to pour..
I'll be there for you, like I've been there before..
I'll be there for you.. like you're there for me too
No one could ever know me
No one could ever see me
Seems you're the only one who knows
what it's like to be me
Someone to face the day with
Make it through all the rest with
Someone I'll always laugh with
Even at my worst I'm best with you, Yeah.


Isn't this an inspirational song that you and your girlfriend can just jump around to and sing, that will make you feel so much better when you're thinking "it is just NOT my frikkin Day!" (One Tree Hill - Brooke Davis). That's just it, other than theme songs and great stories, some TV shows have wonderful voiceovers and quotes that will make you think and use them as your own (..don't worry they don't mind if you repeat them!). Example a TV show like Dawson's Creek and One Tree Hill, although if you're a 20 something girl, it may be too late for you to watch Dawson's creek because it is more of the 14-16 year olds kind of series, but if you keep in mind the way you used to think back than, I think every girl should watch Dawson's Creek once in her life. It's just so filled with teenage drama, and maybe it doesn't help you to get through your own drama, but it does show you that what you're feeling at that point in your life is normal.

Then we have One Tree Hill, which is especially wonderful for its voice-overs that will make you think, let me give you an example:
The rest of your life is a long time, and whether you know it or not it's being shaped right now. You can choose to blame your circumstances on faith, or bad luck or bad choices..or you can FIGHT BACK. Things aren't always going to be fair in the real world, that's just the way it is. But for the most part, you get what you give. What's worse? Not getting everything you wished for? Or getting it, but finding out it's not enough?The rest of your life is being shaped right now, with the dreams you chase, the choices you make, and the person you decide to be. The rest of your life is a long time, and the rest of your life starts, Now.
One Tree Hill

Isn't it beautiful? Doesn't it make you think? Doesn't it give you SO MUCH more hope and faith in the person you are and the person you can become? and having someone to share these thoughts with is the best thing.