Love, simple word .. 4 letters .. complicated meaning. Ever since I was a little girl I've tried to give that word a definition. When you see two people on tv say that they love eachother what is there special between them? Why can't you be in love with all of your friends? you care for them .. isn't that enough?
Nowadays I still cannot give a clear definition of what love is .. but I can say this.. It's something you feel.. I know it's vague but hear me out. In the first stages of a relationship you are obviously in lust but than when the honeymoon period wears off thats when you can realise if that person is IT or not. This time is when you can see clearly the person for who he really is and you can accept him for who he is with his negatives and positives.
The best thing about love is that we can all have our own version of it. It's the person that may not have your same likes and dislikes but accepts them and is willing to compromise because he knows that it's what you want. It's the person that surprises you on your anniversary with a movie you have been wanting to watch for weeks even though he's not so into watching it.
I think the love of your life is ultimately your partner.
It's the person that doesn't think that you're an idiot when you make a stupid mistake.
It's the person that will fight for your dream when you're too down in the dumps to fight because he knows that thats what you really want.
It's the first person that you want to call when you receive bad/good news.
It's the only person that makes sense when all the people around you seem to be going bonkers.
It's also the person that can make your heart beat fast when he hugs you.
The person that you want standing next to you when all your dreams are coming true.
So now I ask you: When all you ever wished for is coming true, who's the person standing next to you? Can you see him/her?
If you can .. what are you waiting for?
